Marriage is one of the most essential part of any person’s life. It is a life-long commitment, which has no place for self-centeredness, self-indulgence or self-gratification. Marriage is the foundation for social order, since it restrains self-centeredness and promotes love of another. Marriage is supposed to be an unsaid, unwritten tie between two people, who decide to spend their whole life together and contribute towards strengthening their relationship at all moments during this course.
Marriage is a beautiful relationship which needs utmost care and nurturing. It needs to be handled calmly with great sensitivity. This beautiful relation is said to make two souls complete by sharing their life together. It is not only about sharing one’s life but also about sharing all the responsibilities, grief, sorrows, joys that come on the way. Marriage leads people towards a more organised environment and provide an everlasting companion, a shoulder to lean on.
The beautiful relationship shared between a couple named as a marriage needs to be handled with great care, from both sides. It holds no space for self-centeredness. But, in today’s stressful environment, even this beautiful relationship suffers through detachment and ignorance due to the anger, restlessness, anxiety, stress, sadness of the individuals. In all such cases, marriage counselling can act as an asset to save this relationship and maintain the beauty and quality of togetherness.
Marriage counselling assists people to focus on and be clear of what concerns the people. Different approaches are used by the counsellors who, help people understand each other better and make them learn not to get judgemental towards their partner. Marriage counselling is an opportunity to get a better understanding of each other’s values, expectations, needs and desires which further help in complementing to each other’s weaknesses. It assists people in taking up the right measures, making the right choices and changes at the correct time; before the relevant & irrelevant issues break the couples apart. People are likely to gain an insight into their own feelings and behaviour and improve their relationship by developing better ways of living.
As humans, love, care and affection are the basic necessities which all people lure for. Love is the basis of any relationship including marriage, which is considered as one of the most important relationship which any person witnesses.
Unhealthy marriages can have an extremely deteriorating impact on any person’s life. Unhealthy marriages not only bring the couple into an emotionally traumatic condition, but also ruin their life and family. Also, the children whose parents share an unhealthy marriage, tend to lose their confidence, isolate themselves from the rest of the world, and blame themselves for the bad situation of their parents’ relationship. Apart from the kids, even adults who witness the unhealthy relationship of a couple experience pain and discontent. The pain and suffering, which an unhealthy marriage brings to the couple’s life and their family is, incomparable to any other loss. Any frequent or aggressive arguments in a marriage, not only disrupts the functioning of the family life, but also affects the children in the family adversely. The traumatic effects of unhealthy marriage last an impression on the couple’s and their family’s emotional life, which seldom heals and even if it heals, it takes a very long time.
Dr. Gitanjali Sharma is a renowned Marriage, Relationship and Family Counsellor. She has been practicing from the past 15 years in the field of counselling, dealing with relationship and emotional issues.
She completed her M.Sc. and M.A.in psychology and she is a Postgraduate in counselling & guidance. Along with these she is also a MBA (HR), Clinical Hypnotherapist, NLP Trainer, Gemmologist as well as a Diamond Grader.Read More ...
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